420-friendly dating
Cannabis dating
For adults who want a partner who shares their outlook on cannabis, or is easy-going about it.
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- Made for cannabis lovers
Shared habits, easier start
Most couples who last agree on the everyday stuff: how they spend evenings, what a good weekend looks like, how tidy the kitchen should be. For a lot of people, cannabis is part of that everyday picture. Dating someone who shares your view on it, or at least respects it, removes one of the quieter sources of friction before it starts.
Pot Dating is built around that idea. Members either use cannabis or are comfortable with a partner who does, which means you can be yourself from your very first message.
Who you'll meet
Cannabis-friendly people are not one type. You'll find people who use it to unwind after work, people who enjoy it socially at weekends, people who prefer edibles to smoking, and people who don't use it at all but don't mind if you do. What they share is an open mind, and that tends to make for easier conversations.
Your profile is where you set the tone. Say how cannabis fits into your life in a sentence, then talk about the rest of you: work, hobbies, what you're looking for. If you're unsure of the wording, see what 420-friendly means.
What you can do on Pot Dating
- Create a profile with photos and say where you stand on cannabis.
- Browse profiles and see daily match suggestions.
- Send a limited number of messages a day, with more on a paid membership.
- Choose optional ID and video verification to show you're genuine.
- Block and report anyone who makes you uncomfortable.
Membership options are explained on our how it works page.
Dating someone with different habits
Not every great match lines up perfectly. If you smoke daily and they prefer the odd edible, or one of you doesn't use it at all, that can still work. Talk early about where and when, and respect each other's limits. Our guide to dating a stoner when you don't smoke goes into the details.
What cannabis-friendly couples say makes it work
Agreeing on cannabis tends to be less about matching habits exactly and more about matching attitudes. Couples who get on well usually share a few things: neither of them feels judged, they agree where and when it's fine at home, and they keep plans they've made with each other. A shared sense of humour about the munchies helps too, as does being able to say "not tonight" without it turning into a debate.
It's also worth thinking about the rest of your life together. Cannabis might be what brings you to the same site, but it won't be what keeps you together. Look for someone whose plans for the next few years look a bit like yours, whether that's travel, settling down, a career push or simply a calmer pace. Use the first few chats to find out what they care about beyond the weekend, and let the cannabis side be one easy thing you already have in common. The rest is up to the two of you.
Responsible and respectful
Pot Dating is a place to meet people, not to buy or sell anything. Cannabis laws differ widely between countries and regions and we don't give legal or medical advice, so check your local rules. Members must be 18 or over, and the usual dating safety habits apply: meet in public, tell a friend and trust your instincts. More on our safety page.
Plan your first date
Once you've matched, you'll want somewhere to go. Browse our 420 date ideas, from food markets and gigs to film nights in.
Questions people ask
Is Pot Dating just for people who smoke?
No. Non-smokers are welcome too, as long as they're comfortable with a partner who uses cannabis.
Can I buy or sell cannabis through Pot Dating?
No. Pot Dating is for meeting people. Buying or selling anything through the site isn't allowed.
Can I delete my account?
Yes. You can delete your account if you decide the site isn't for you.
Find someone on your wavelength
Join Pot Dating and meet people who share your relaxed outlook.
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