Date someone who gets it
A 420-friendly dating site, so your lifestyle is the start of the conversation, not the awkward bit.
- Adults 18+ only
- Cannabis-friendly by design
- Optional ID and video verification
- A limited number of free messages a day
- Delete your account any time
Dating without the awkward reveal
Three things that make the first chat easier here.
- 1Say it on your profileShare how cannabis fits your life in your own words, so the right people find you first.
- 2Meet people who get itSmokers, edibles fans, growers and relaxed non-smokers, all on one site. See how it works
- 3Stay in controlReport, block and verification tools are there when you need them. Read our safety tips
Why a 420-friendly dating site?
On most dating apps, cannabis is the thing you hint at. You add a leaf emoji, or you wait until the third date and hope it goes well. Pot Dating starts from the other end. Everyone here has chosen a site made for people who enjoy cannabis, or who are happy to date someone who does, so the question is already answered before you say hello.
That doesn't mean everyone is the same. Some people smoke every evening; others enjoy an edible once a month. Some grow their own and could talk about strains for hours; others just want a partner who won't judge them. What you share is that nobody has to pretend.
Who you'll meet here
- Smokers who'd rather share a session than explain one.
- Edibles fans who prefer a slow evening in.
- Growers who'd love someone who's interested in the garden.
- Canna-curious and non-smokers who are relaxed about a partner who partakes.
You set what you're looking for, whether that's a relationship, a date or new friends, and you decide how much of your lifestyle you put on your profile.
How it works, in short
- Join. Create your account and add a few photos.
- Say how you roll. Use your profile to share how cannabis fits your life, along with everything else that makes you you.
- Get talking. Browse members, see your match suggestions and start a conversation.
The full walkthrough is on our How it works page.
Good to talk about early
Being on the same page about cannabis is a great start, but it's only one thing. These are the questions people tend to wish they'd asked sooner:
- How often? Daily and occasional users can be a great match, as long as you both know where you stand.
- Where and when? At home only, or out with friends? Before dinner, or never on work nights?
- Smoke or no smoke? Some people love a joint; others prefer edibles or nothing in the house at all.
- What else matters? Music, food, travel, kids, pets. Cannabis gets the conversation going, but these are what keep it going.
A first message that works
Openers that mention something specific give people more to reply to than a plain "hi". Try one of these:
- "Your profile says you grow your own. What's been your best harvest so far?"
- "Edibles and a film, or a joint and a long walk? I need to know where you stand."
- "That photo at the festival looks like a great weekend. Who was playing?"
Keep it light, ask a question and give them something easy to answer. If the reply is short, don't take it personally. Some people take a while to warm up.
Meeting up
When you're ready to meet, choose a public place, tell a friend where you'll be and make your own way there and back. Keep your first date clear-headed, so you can both judge how it's going. Cannabis laws are very different from one country, state or province to the next. Know the rules where you live and where you meet, and never bring cannabis across a border.
Our Safety page covers this in more detail, and our Guides have ideas for 420-friendly dates and tips for dating someone who doesn't smoke.
Questions people ask
Do I have to smoke to join Pot Dating?
No. Pot Dating is for people who enjoy cannabis and for people who are happy to date someone who does. Plenty of members prefer edibles, or don't partake at all.
Is Pot Dating just for serious dating?
No. You choose what you're looking for, whether that's something serious, casual dates or new friends, and you can change it whenever you like.
Can I buy or sell cannabis here?
No. Pot Dating is for meeting people, never for buying or selling anything. Buying or selling drugs is against the rules. Every photo, video and piece of text is screened as it's uploaded, and accounts that break the rules can be suspended or banned.
Where is Pot Dating available?
Pot Dating is open to adults aged 18 and over. Cannabis laws differ widely, so it's up to each member to follow the law where they live.
What does it cost?
You can see every membership option and exactly what each includes on our Pricing page.