420-friendly dating
420-friendly dating
Meet people who are relaxed about cannabis, so it's part of the conversation from day one.
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- Made for cannabis lovers
What 420-friendly dating means here
Everyone on Pot Dating chose a site where cannabis is welcome, whether they use it or simply don't mind. That doesn't mean everyone smokes, or smokes the same way. It means nobody here will treat it as a red flag, and nobody has to wait for the right moment to bring it up.
If you want the background on the phrase itself, read what 420-friendly means.
Why a dedicated site helps
On a general app you're making a judgement call every time: do you mention it in your bio, in the first message, on the third date? Get it wrong and a promising match goes cold. Here the question is already answered, so the early chat can be about the things that make two people click: humour, plans, music, food, how you spend a Sunday.
It also helps if you're 420-friendly but don't smoke. You can say so plainly and meet people who are fine with that. Our guide to dating a stoner when you don't smoke covers how mixed couples make it work.
How it works
- Create your profile. Add photos and a few lines about you, including where you stand on cannabis if you like.
- Browse and match. Look through profiles and daily match suggestions.
- Start talking. You can send a limited number of messages a day; paid memberships add more. See how it works for the details.
Profiles that work
The best 420-friendly profiles mention cannabis once and then move on. One line, such as "420-friendly, mostly weekends", is enough to set expectations, and it leaves room for the conversations that tell you far more. Spend the rest of your words on what makes you good company. A clear recent photo where you're smiling does more than any clever caption.
When you message someone, pick up on something specific from their profile. "You're into jazz too, who should I listen to first?" beats "hey" every time.
Questions worth asking early
420-friendly people still differ, so a few gentle questions in the first week save surprises later. How often does cannabis fit into a normal week? Do they prefer smoking, vaping or edibles, and does any of that happen indoors? Are they looking for something relaxed and casual, or a partner to build a life with? None of these needs to feel like an interview; drop them into conversation as they come up.
It's just as useful to share your own answers. If you're up early for work every day, say so. If you'd rather keep cannabis to weekends, say that too. People who are relaxed about cannabis are usually relaxed about honesty as well, and a clear picture of each other's routines makes it much easier to tell whether a spark could turn into something that lasts. You'll also find out quickly whether you share the things that matter more than any habit: humour, kindness and wanting the same kind of relationship.
Staying safe
Members must be 18 or over. Members can choose optional ID and video verification, so look for it when you're deciding who to meet. Keep chats on the site until you're comfortable, meet somewhere public, and tell a friend your plans. You can block or report anyone who makes you uneasy. More on our safety page.
Ideas for the first meet
Short of inspiration? Our 420 date ideas cover relaxed first dates, second dates and nights in, all of which work whether or not anyone lights up. Comparing options first? Read stoner and 420 dating sites compared.
Questions people ask
Do I have to smoke to join?
No. Pot Dating is for people who enjoy cannabis or are happy to date someone who does.
Who can join Pot Dating?
Adults aged 18 or over who are looking to meet cannabis-friendly people.
Is everyone verified?
No. Verification is optional. Members can choose ID and video checks, so look for them when deciding who to meet.